About one year ago, I met an interesting woman. Laila Burton was friendly, warm and caring, and at the time, she was considering becoming a Family Mediator. Soon thereafter, Laila realized that her passion and strenghths made her ideally suited for becoming a Grief and Loss Specialist, with a paricular focus on Divorce Recovery.
Now, Laila is a wonderful resource person for our clients at Victory Law and Mediation, and other individuals and families struggling through the emotional turbulance of separation and divorce. Laila writes:
Divorce is the
death of a relationship, but it’s also the loss of hopes and dreams, and the
end to a union that was meant to be forever.
Divorce can challenge lifelong beliefs, strain friendships, divide
families, fuel unhealthy communication patterns, damage self-esteem and
self-confidence.
Without acknowledging and completing a past
relationship, the emotional toll of divorce can have a negative impact for
years. Hurt feelings or negative
patterns of behaviour can be brought into future relationships, or unknowingly,
be taken out on the people we love, or negatively impact children.
With no clear structure on how to heal from
a divorce, couples are often left to the advice of a lawyer or well-meaning
friends and family. It’s estimated that
nearly half of all marriages will end in divorce, and a significant number of
people are unsure about how to end their emotional relationship with a former
spouse.

Divorce Recovery
is about taking the time to invest in yourself so you can be free from the pain
that a divorce can cause. Taking the
first step can feel difficult or intimidating, but with support, guidance and a
commitment to yourself, recovery is possible.
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